Microlighters

After a recent, very unpleasant, incident, a good friend of us all suggested the following code for everyone that participates on our forum. I applaud him for this suggestion, support it and would love to hear your comments.

I undertake to uphold the values and norms of this forum.
I undertake to conduct myself befitting an aviator.
I undertake to not make derogatory remarks concerning fellow aviators, talk down to, belittle or insult anybody.
I undertake to follow protocol and use the correct channels provided to me to report unacceptable behavior or incidents.
I undertake not to use a forum to inflame any situation where an investigation is under way.
I undertake to provide exact details of incidents should I opt to use channels provided to me to report an incident.
I undertake to prepare and reconsider my posting before publication.
I undertake to address the problem, not the person.

And then he added this:
The most beautiful advice

An Angel says, 'Never borrow from the future. If you worry about what may happen tomorrow and it doesn't happen, you have worried in vain. Even if it does happen, you have to worry twice.'

1. Pray
2. Go to bed on time.
3. Get up on time so you can start the day unrushed.
4. Say No to projects that won't fit into your time schedule, or that will compromise your mental health.
5. Delegate tasks to capable others.
6. Simplify and unclutter your life.
7. Less is more. (Although one is often not enough, two are often too many.)
8. Allow extra time to do things and to get to places..
9. Pace yourself. Spread out big changes and difficult projects over time; don't lump the hard things all together.
10. Take one day at a time.
11. Separate worries from concerns . If a situation is a concern, find out what God would have you do and let go of the anxiety . If you can't do anything about a situation, forget it.
12. Live within your budget; don't use credit cards for ordinary purchases.
13. Have backups; an extra car key in your wallet, an extra house key buried in the garden, extra stamps, etc.
14. K.M.S. (Keep Mouth Shut). This single piece of advice can prevent an enormous amount of trouble.
15. Do something for the Kid in You everyday.
16. Carry a Bible with you to read while waiting in line.
17.. Get enough rest.
18. Eat right..
19 Get organized so everything has its place.
20. Listen to a tape while driving that can help improve your quality of life.
21. Write down thoughts and inspirations.
22. Every day, find time to be alone. REPEAT...every day, FIND time to be alone.
23. Having problems? Talk to God on the spot. Try to nip small problems in the bud. Don't wait until it's time to go to bed to try and pray..
24. Make friends with Godly people.
25. Keep a folder of favorite scriptures on hand.
26. Remember that the shortest bridge between despair and hope is often a good 'Thank you God.'
27. Laugh.
28. Laugh some more!
29. Take your work seriously, but not yourself at all.
30. Develop a forgiving attitude (most people are doing the best they can).
31. Be kind to unkind people (they probably need it the most).
32. Sit on your ego.
33 Talk less; listen more.
34. Slow down.
35. Remind yourself that you are not the general manager of the universe.
36 Every night before bed, think of one thing you're grateful for that you've never been grateful for before. GOD HAS A WAY OF TURNING THINGS AROUND FOR YOU.

'If God is for us, who can be against us?'
(Romans 8:31)

Another Gem from JeanTree on here is "Sometimes it's better to be kind than to be right!"

Tinkerbell, such words of wisdom there. Good one.

Where do I sign up ?

Alkemac, thank you, that's the attitude we need. Signed up!

Signed up!!

Signed up!

Signed up!

Come on is it really that bad ?

And if you feel like venting, ranting, raving etc the other forum is for you !

Signed up!!

Oh Yes SIGN me Up for Sure

Sign me up aswell!

Got my vote on this one.

Where do we keep a list to remind each otrher later...........