Taildraggers get my vote, but they can bite. X winds are a bitch. RV is not a problem and have landed in more than 25kts X wind component. The Cubby does not like x winds at all.
Be carefull not to rely on what your hear. Go out there and test them yourself. I was close to giving up on the tailie (cubby). Could just not get the feel. I then pitched for a flight in my steel tipped construction site boots

which were too big to fit between the brakes and seat and had to fly in my socks. Hey presto. Now my Cubby pre flight includes removal of shoes and never looked back..... (I battled more with take off's than landings strangely. Something to do with VW motor and prop turning the wrong way. Instinct too over and I would go further into the bushes rather than down the runway)
PS
I think the little wheel aeries are sexy as hell and if you don't get excited by your aerie why bother. I am like a kid with a new toy every time I see the RV. It was recommended that I go RVxA (nose wheel) as I had zero tail wheel hrs when I bought it. The tailwheel just does it for me. Personal pref. Training will sort you out, but a light high wing tailie will be a handfull in X wind. That said most have stol capability and could safely land on the taxi way or across the runway if the wind is that strong

just get help to hold it down once on ground.... he he he he
Have fun and fly as many as you can.
PPS
The Oribi is a nice (cheap) tri gear that can go where many tailies would not.