I too have lost a regulator within the first 50 hours including a battery, cooked from being charged at 18 volts
The new one is now 70 hours old, and seems to be fine for now. Be interesting to see if there is indeed perhaps an installation issue to look out for etc,
What I did do in the meantime is seriously beef up the earthing of the motor and the power etc by installing heavy duty cables. My regulator sits against the firewall and the motor and charging circuit is isolated via rubber engine mounts. So all the power feed is via cables, on both the positive and the earthed negative. I am using heavy duty mutistrand battery cables, used by the 4X4 guys when they install the second battery. The copper component is about 6mm thick. I also kept all distances to a minimum. the longest piece of cable is about 200mm,
Is the regulator wired correctly?, see diagram