This sounds like an ethical and technical question.!!What is the definition of... 'to take advantage of'...'??
To my opinion it is not possable to take advantage of somebody if you are not allowed to.!
I noticed that you have very recently joined the forum.? Could it perhaps be to investigate the matter.?
You must be driven by very strong forces to want to expose your problem on this forum.!!!
Eg. jealousy, hate.anger and revenge...Be carefull they will all backfire on you.!!
I feel sorry for you because I have gone through it myself.
I recommend that you stop persuing the microlight Pilot and alow him to have her because if she wants him it means that she is not worthy of you.
If you cant be her first choice, dont settle for second.!
Go and see some-one who can help you professionally..
Good luck..
