How have you been conned, misslead or let down?
Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 8:32 pm
This thread is a new one to stop us from hijacking Morpheus build project with irrelevant banter not pertaining to the post.
I replied to Morphs post viewtopic.php?p=40094#40094
Lets keep the off topic stuff here.
I replied to Morphs post viewtopic.php?p=40094#40094
Lets keep the off topic stuff here.
DarkHelmet wrote:Not nice to hear Morph - hope Boet has good news at the end of today!
As for hindsight? a bit O/T - I paid a contractor upfront to redo my pool. I expect full upfront payment from my clients, so I thought everyone is as honourable as me. Took him ages to complete! It is looking worse now than it did before! Cement is rubbing off and the coating inside as well! (Obviously only noticed this a few weeks later).
Moral of the story - never pay in full if you don't have the goods or the job is not yet completed! Hard lesson to learn
Barnstormer wrote:DH
I used to see things the same way you did.
I learned the truth the hardway. I had about the same problem Morph is having, but with our supposed to be engagement ring which became a wedding ring because it was only finished one week before the wedding. It only took the guy one year to make it to the specifications he helped set and proposed. He is from a very reputable jeweller and he is very good and the business has been going for three generations etc. etc.
Anyway, advice from my laywer was this: There are always risks in business. Make sure the risks are devided equally.
In my case, I was trusting this guy to do everything correct, perfect and on time. I paid him a deposit (50%) so I couldn't run away. Problem was, in no way was I protected. He had my money, he did just what he wanted without taking me, my planning and his promises into concideration.
Fact is, next time I will not pay a deposit. My deposit is the fact that I am trusting whoever to do what he said he would. His deposit is the fact that he can sell his goods to anybody else.
A few weeks ago I had our house treated against ants and wanted to pay immediately, but realised the whole house wasn't treated as agreed and decided to wait and see if the ants are really gone. Guess what, they (or their brothers and sisters) appeared one day after the treatment. I phoned the company and they said I have to wait two weeks to see I the ants are gone or not and then phone them. Guess what? The ants just became more and more. They now have the opportinuty to come and do what they were supposed to do the first time, before I pay them.
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