Very interesting topic.

Depending on the design of the system in flight refuelling definitely makes for safer flying. And a simple system makes for a safer system.

So, gravity feed is the way to go for me. Ystervarks sytem relies on an air tight connection between the main and reserve tanks and if it fails/blocks/restricts the flow the main tank will build up a vacuum.
Although I have not tried the following idea, I have seen it working. It relies simply on a gravity feed between the two tanks. Take Ystervarks picture, but instead of connecting the first pipe (labelled, “to tank breather”) to the breather of the main tank, connect it to a new separate hole in the cap (for this purpose only). The second pipe (labelled ,“breather”) coming out of the reserve tank, on the back seat, is routed to beside the pilot with a plug in its end. When more than the reserve tanks fuel (25 liters) has been used the pilot removes the plug and blows into the second pipe, thus starting the siphoning process. The purpose of the plug is to prevent the airflow from prematurely starting the siphoning process.

The new separate hole in the main tank cap can be plugged when not in use. Simple and safe.
I see oom Paul has highlighted the possibility of unwanted/premature siphoning. His tap will prevent this. But if you fit a tap, then you should not need the second pipe for starting the siphoning. Just prime the first pipe and close the tap. When you open it again siphoning should continue?
